Showing posts with label brook. Show all posts
Showing posts with label brook. Show all posts

Tuesday, 18 November 2014

Exciting, Busy and also Tired!

Aloha. This blog post is being written in a hotel room in London, which feels and sounds quite posh! I'm here as part of the Mentality team- tomorrow, we're going to the NHS Takeover Day to speak to decision-makers in the GP sector about what works, what doesn't and what needs to improve when it comes to young people and GPs, in particular mental health. All very important and exciting!
However, that's not the only cool thing I'm involved in at the moment... On Mondays, I'm helping with Brook's latest project, a video about body image with a social media twist. Then, on Friday, I'm being filmed as part of a documentary on Mentality, and straight after that I'm going to a last minute choir rehearsal for a performance on Sunday. Friday is also my mum's birthday- very much looking forward to a meal out to celebrate that :) Finally, finally, finally, Saturday brings a trip to town, catching up with lots of work and a party in the evening, and Sunday heralds the choir performance before 'the usual' of swim teaching and youth group.
So, as you can see, life's getting pretty damn hectic at the moment. I'm going to be blogging as much as possible, but it's quite hard to find time at the moment. My mood's also been a bit unstable, which is frustrating- however, things are good right now, so I'm hopeful that all will be okay in the end.
I really really need to check emails and sleep now; hasta la vista and I hope you have a good week x

Saturday, 18 October 2014

Mentality- What's Yours?

I've been volunteering with The Mentality Project (part of Off the Record) for a while now- around 3 or 4 months I think. We're a group of young people who meet once a week, with an aim to campaign to break down the stigma surrounding mental health, and to raise awareness. I absolutely love the group, and I love what we're doing!
Last Saturday, we held an event to mark World Mental Health Day. We decided that we wanted to do something quite big, to really get the attention of the public- so we chose to run activities on the bottom floor of the Galleries (one of Bristol's central shopping centres). Each of the activities was related to positive mental health- for example, we had a 'washing line' on which we asked people to hang paper clothes with something positive about their friends written on, to represent the importance of the people around you. People collected a stamp from each activity to 'earn' themselves a Happiness Box. The Happiness Boxes originally came from the summer NCS programme, and contained various 'happy things'- for example, products from Lush, stress balls and sweets.
Washing Line Game
Happiness Boxes (Some of!)
'Chill Out Area'
I Modelled the Dressing Up Activity
In addition, we handed out information on not just Off the Record and the Mentality Project, but a range of mental health issues and services. This table attracted quite a bit of attention, with loads of people taking leaflets- hopefully we've helped to get information to people who will really benefit from it!
Info Table
To add to the Mentality hub, we had four other organisations- Bristol Drugs Project, who did a stall around the effects of alcohol, Brook (a sexual health group who I also volunteer for!) with an activity around self-esteem (see the 'self esteem' bracelet below, contributed by a small child!), Resilience Lab, a part of OTR who try to increase individuals resilience to life challenges, and Freedom Youth, Bristol's LGBTQ+ youth group. They had a stall making badges. In other news, I now have some of the coolest badges in existence!
'You Are Not A Lion'
Freedom Badges
As well as the main event, we had teams going out to do 'outreach' in the general Bristol city centre area. They were armed with chalkboards and cameras, and got people to write down things that made them happy before taking a picture of them with their contributions. These are going to be used to make a film about positive mental health.
Lastly, we had an amazing juggling duo, who did one of the activities- getting involved in hobbies for positive mental health- and did a fab show that got loads of people watching!
Onlookers!
 
Jugglers in Action
Overall, the day went really really well. It's one thing me saying that- but it's proven in the fact that we smashed both of our goals, which were to speak to 500 people and to properly engage 100. Using the numbers of Off the Record business cards we handed out, the number of pictures taken and the amount of Happiness Boxes claimed, we went far and beyond both of these targets, which is absolutely amazing. In less statistical terms, it means that we got a heck of a lot of people thinking and talking about mental health, which is really important. Mental health is often ignored- or, worse, stigmatised. The very fact that we were there, in the Galleries, refusing to go away and putting mental health right in the public eye was huge.
Birds Eye View
Even the Mayor Paid a Visit!
On a more personal note, the day was one of the highlights not just of my year, but of my life. I got a chance to help with all of the stalls, did some of the outreach photography, and also went around the Galleries publicising the event. It involved lots and lots of speaking to strangers, which was terrifying at first, but got a lot easier the more I did it, and was really rewarding. Mental health is something hugely important to me, so it was great to have such a focus on it. A real highlight was when I spoke to a few younger children, and explained- in kids terms- the importance of mental health- 'sowing the seeds' for later life, as I like to think!! All in all the day was amazing. If I could do something involving that level of campaigning as a permanent job, then I'd be pretty damn chuffed!
To sum up my thoughts- I am so lucky, for I love what I do and I do what I love. I'm honoured to be a part of campaigns such as this, and to really get out there, doing what I genuinely feel as if I was born to do. Even better, I get to share it with a group of amazing people. My fellow Mentality Project volunteers are awesome-sauce, and I love them to pieces. We rock!
(Lastly- How Cute is the Dog that Came to Get Involved?!)

Monday, 4 August 2014

#JustHuman

This post should've been written aaaages ago... Unfortunately, I've been really busy, so I've not had a chance to write it until now! (And I'm totally not meant to be packing now or anything...)
Anyway. I blogged a while ago about the work I've been doing with Brook, and that we'd been making an LGBTQ video. Well, we finished that video a couple of weeks ago, and it's now live on the internet, which is really really exciting.
The video we created started out as one thing, and ended, of course, as something utterly different. The finished thing is based around love and companionship- because, at the end of the day, that's something that brings us all together. Almost everyone is looking for love and companionship in some way or another, and everyone has different ideas of what they want in a relationship. Our question- do these things change depending on your sexuality? Well, the video's below. Take a look and see for yourself. Personally, I think the answer's pretty clear.
However, that's not the end of it- we think that our video has a really important message, and we'd like as many people to see it as possible. It might not change the world; but it might just reach one person who needs it, and that, as ever, would make it entirely worth it. Please, please- share this. Tell your friends. Talk about it. Spread the word, and get it out there. You never know who could see it because of you. Even better, get in on the discussion- tweet @RifeMag with the hashtag #JustHuman and let us know what YOU want in a relationship!!
If you're wondering WHY you should share- here's why. Because, at the end of the day, we are all just human. We are all living our lives, sharing happiness and struggles, breathing the same air and walking the same streets. If you were to cut us open and remove any of our organs, you would find no difference between each person. We all have the power- and the need- to love, and we are all doing that in our own way. So what if the person you love is male, is female, is neither, both, is something different? It's still love. It's still the same concept. We are just human, and we are just loving. I honestly hope with all my heart that one day we create a world that accepts that. Please. Help us out. Spread the love.

Tuesday, 1 July 2014

29) Do voluntary work that's not swimming-related

I've just realised that I kinda completed this one a while back!! My week has become pretty busy with lots of voluntary stuff, which is good and makes me really happy. On a Monday I go to a participation group at Brook (sexual health/relationships/LGBTQ stuff for young adults)- we're currently creating a LGBTQ-based video, which is very fun and very exciting. Then on a Thursday, I've just started going to Mentality, a youth project based around mental health stigma etc. (then I coach for an hour, but that's swimming-related). Finally, on Fridays I help out in a Year 8 English class in school! Hopefully also getting involved with some more specific LGBTQ stuff, which will be exciting when it happens!